There seems to be a lot of pressure in Emerging Church Circles to reach out to your neighbours, those in your local community for one to incarnate themselves in their community and be a Jesus type figure where all find out about God through you. I wonder if this is a hang up from the Emerging Church’s evangelical roots where you had to reach out to your friends and bring them to a hear guest speaker / alpha course or similar. Well, as someone who is theologically trained, fairly good communicating my faith in a way that non Xns can relate to. I've got to say that for me in my new suburb this is bloody hard work. In a nut shell this is why…
1) I know that I’m not going to try and build a church building with a big PA or stand on a box at the edge of my drive way and preach. But I don’t know what I’m going to do and that is really hard to work it out.
2) The only common meeting place is the traffic lights where we all sit to get out of the suburbs we live in (parks re still yet to be built as are the shops other shops are 10 minute drive away so most people shop near where they work).
3) Most people drive into their driveway shut the door behind them. They live in this suburb because it’s just 20 minutes drive away from where they’d really like to live – so many see this as only temporary and sell up (one next door neighbour and the people across the road) when their house has gone up in value enough.
4) I work funny hours and often away over the weekend or working on a Friday or Saturday night which means I miss many spontaneous street events. A couple of street BBQ’s and game of Street Cricket to name but two.
5) When I do get to talk to my neighbours we have very little in common. They love their sport, cars and work in trades. I love music and art and work in humanities. So when they give me the name of their trade I have to ask what that actually means and when they say I look like (insert famous footy player) I have to ask who that is. Now I don’t mind the difference but I can just feel this cultural wall rise up between us. Especially as often people like myself (tertiary educated etc… have looked down on my hard working trades working neighbours in the past and there is no reason not to expect similar from me)
So where too? Well apart from not feeling bad about it. I’ll just plod along trying work out what means to live a Christ inspired life in the context I am in. What’ll happen? I’ll let you know.
5) When I do get to talk to my neighbours we have very little in common. They love their sport, cars and work in trades. I love music and art and work in humanities. So when they give me the name of their trade I have to ask what that actually means and when they say I look like (insert famous footy player) I have to ask who that is. Now I don’t mind the difference but I can just feel this cultural wall rise up between us. Especially as often people like myself (tertiary educated etc… have looked down on my hard working trades working neighbours in the past and there is no reason not to expect similar from me)
So where too? Well apart from not feeling bad about it. I’ll just plod along trying work out what means to live a Christ inspired life in the context I am in. What’ll happen? I’ll let you know.